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EGOCAKE

Over-commitment and overwhelm are very real factors leading to burnout. Distraction is eroding our capacity and killing our creativity and productivity. So many of us walk around overwhelmed by all the options and opportunities thrown at us 24/7.

You can reduce this by spending a little time understanding your decision making process and commitment tendencies. The EGOCAKE framework can help.

Capacity Elasticity

We don’t always realize how much we’re saying yes to—until we’re completely stretched thin. Like an elastic band, our capacity can stretch and adapt… but only for so long. Keep adding more without making space, and eventually, it snaps.

This slow build-up of over-commitment is one of the sneakiest ways burnout takes hold. The good news? You can start shifting it by becoming more aware of your patterns, boundaries, and how you’re allocating your energy.

TEDx Burnout: How Addiction to Distraction is Eroding our Capacity

Melanie’s TEDx talk, titled “Burnout: How Addiction to Distraction is Eroding Our Capacity,” addresses the pervasive issue of distraction in modern society and its detrimental effects on our well-being. In this talk, she takes the audience on an entertaining and thought-provoking journey to better understand their capacity and commitment tendencies.

Capacity Learning Moments

Check out these bite-sized capacity learning moments with Melanie


Capacity Micro Assessment

Do you ever feel at the mercy of other people’s commitments or requests? Over-extended? Exhausted? Learn more about your decision-making pattern, commitment tendencies and indulgent behaviours that cause overwhelm & burnout. In this micro capacity assessment, you’ll discover what state of capacity you are spending the most time in.

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Micro Capacity Assessment

Name(Required)
When work piles up, how often do you feel that your colleagues help you stay connected and keep you in the loop?(Required)
When you're overwhelmed, how often do you feel abandoned by your team, left to carry the load on your own?(Required)
When you’re under intense pressure, how often do you hesitate to reach out for help because you fear it might only add to your stress?(Required)
How often do you find yourself too drained by work to invest in building or maintaining meaningful connections?(Required)
How often do daily interactions leave you feeling more drained than uplifted, adding to your sense of overload?(Required)
In moments of overload, how frequently do you question whether your team can truly pull together, or do you end up feeling isolated in your struggle?(Required)
When your workload feels unmanageable, how often do you question if your daily efforts really matter?(Required)
How often do you feel that the pressure of your job forces you to compromise your personal values, leaving you disillusioned?(Required)
When you’re stretched thin, how often do you wonder if your hard work is making any real difference?(Required)
After a long, draining day, how frequently do you end up feeling empty and unfulfilled?(Required)

Looking for More?

Podcast

Tune in to many high capacity individuals share their stories on how they’ve respected and abused their own capacity. they share personal stories and strategies that will be sure to inspire you and your capacity management.

Book

Want to go deeper? Check out Melanie’s book Diary of a Functioning Burnout for a powerful, personal take on burnout.

Instagram

Check out Melanie’s Instagram account for more capacity insights!

YouTube

Check out Melanie’s Youtube channel for bite-sized videos that make a big impact.